Bicycles, Yoga, and Nina: BicycleSPACE Yoga Fundraiser

Nina moved quickly. If she wasn't running somewhere, Nina was likely darting off around town on a bright pink road bike. It's no surprise then that she would be drawn to a series of free evening yoga classes at BicycleSPACE, a community-oriented bicycle shop in downtown Washington, DC. The classes, hosted inside BicycleSPACE's shop function on a give-what-you-can model whereby all proceeds are donated to local non-profits. 

Upon hearing of Nina’s passing, BicycleSPACE yoga instructor Claire Hamp decided to dedicate classes throughout the summer of 2015 to Nina and the scholarship endowment at Georgetown University. On September 28, 2015, a special yoga class and reception was held at BicycleSPACE’s Adams Morgan shop to award over $900 in donations to the representatives of the Nina Brekelmans Memorial Scholarship Fund at Georgetown University. Photos from that event are below. 

Eulogy by Elizabeth Harmon

Nina and I met at Middlebury’s summer Arabic language school in 2010. Everyone had to take a placement test, and I tested into a class that was too advanced. I got to the class early and everyone was already chatting in Arabic about their far more accomplished backgrounds. None of the kids looked to be my age, some had graduate degrees, and many had clearly already studied or lived in the Middle East.  Lucky for me, there was Nina. She and I both had just finished our sophomore years of college. I can still picture her sitting at the table on the first day, looking cheerful and eager to begin class, but most importantly to me, she was the only friendly face in the crowd. We sat together, getting to know one another. Nina never put on airs, she is one of the most modest people I have met, especially given her many many accomplishments.

The Middlebury program required everyone to speak only in Arabic for 10 weeks, so we had numerous hours for small talk and chit chat with that limitation. With Nina, the chit chat could run for hours, because even though she was younger than most students, she had great stories about her worldly life, passions, and interests and could convey them very well in the language. She was so easy to talk to.

Within a week of the program beginning, I realized the class with Nina was too advanced for me, and so I dropped down to a lower level. Nina stuck it out as the youngest girl in her class with the fewest number of courses of formal Arabic instruction. She was so determined to challenge herself and disciplined enough to reach her goals. While we were in the same class, we worked together on the homework. When I dropped down a level, Nina continued to help me with my homework and answer my questions throughout the program. Nina was incredibly generous with her time in helping others, no matter how busy she was. This is what she loved to do. And she loved the study of Arabic and how it brought her to interact with others.

Nina talked about how she was happiest when she was studying abroad in the Middle East, because Arabic was her favorite subject, and being there was a chance to study that subject at all hours of the day, in every situation. Whether it was sitting in class, giving directions to a cab driver, hanging out with her local language exchange partner, or running past the vendors on the Corniche in Alexandria, Egypt, she was soaking up the language just being in the Middle East.

Two weeks ago we went for lunch and when talking about her future, she said that she was interested in translating fiction from Arabic into English. She loved the idea of entertaining two of her passions. On top of her rigorous course load in her final semester of her Arab Studies program at Georgetown, she took a creative writing class in the English department and really enjoyed it.

I asked her to lunch because I was hoping to get her advice and feedback on a creative writing project of my own. One of the last things she said to me was, “Lizzie, you just tell me what you need me to do to help you, and I’ll do it.”

Eulogy by Michael Brill

Nina Brekelmans was an amazing colleague and fellow student.  She was an even more amazing person and friend.  Nina and I met in the Center for Arabic Study Abroad program in Amman, Jordan in August 2013.  In getting to know Nina during the following months, I was struck most by the remarkable combination of austerity and discipline with which she conducted herself and regimented her life on the one hand, and the heartfelt happiness and gentleness of spirit with which she interacted with others and the world around her on the other.  Many a weaker person, having subjected him or herself to such a rigorous lifestyle and exacting standards in every endeavor, would have been negatively affected and undergone a hardening of their heart; but not Nina.   Nina’s smile and friendliness were contagious and although we did not share any of the same classes that year in Jordan, our meet-ups for lunch or tea, along with chance encounters at the Arabic institute or around Amman, always predictably resulted in a distinct sense of optimism and positivity.  Never before had I met someone possessing the grace of balancing the highest level of personal devotion with the authentic humility of accepting the world she encountered and the people in it she met as they were.  Nina radiated the joy that comes not only from living, but living well with kindness towards all.  

Nina and my academic and personal friendships developed in an environment heavily influenced by her characteristic dedication and genuineness of purpose.  At a dinner party over Alice Gissinger’s apartment 2-3 months into the program, Nina and I realized that we had not spoken to each other in English, highlighting the seriousness with which she took the pledge to speak in Arabic.  Nina also took a sincere interest in my own plans for the future and was elated that I had deferred acceptance to the Arab Studies program at Georgetown University.  Nina made it crystal clear that she expected me to come back with her to Georgetown and when I officially accepted in April 2014, she greeted me that morning by screaming and jumping up to give me a giant hug, the warmth of which will never grow cold.  In word, spirit, and action, Nina’s loyalty to and pride in this university were boundless.  

The experience of actually having class with and studying alongside Nina this past year at Georgetown is something I will always be grateful for.  Mr. and Mrs. Brekelmans, as I told you when we crossed paths at DuPont Circle just a few weeks ago, “It was an honor spending the past two years with Nina in CASA and at Georgetown, although she set the academic bar so high that it was basically impossible to reach.” However, the difficulty of keeping pace with Nina, whether in school or in life, is not an excuse to avoid trying, to not giving it our very best. We will recall the elegance and poise with which Nina ran marathons and the race of life while finding inspiration in how she ran both.  Nina would expect and accept nothing less.  And despite the pain, sadness, and darkness of the irreparable void created by Nina’s loss, to quote novelist Stephen Crane, I hope that time will bring a measure of solemn comfort in the knowledge that even “the unutterable midnights of the universe will have no power to daunt the color of this soul.”

Eulogy by Alice Gissinger

Dearest Gail, Nico, Rob, friends,

I feel blessed to know that I was one of Nina's very close friends. We got to know each other by spending a year abroad together, studying Arabic in Jordan.

She and I were different in a number of ways, but something about her beauty, her energy, her intelligence, her friendliness instantly attracted me to her, and over the course of the year, we became very close friends.

One of the things I liked most about Nina is that I never had any doubts about the way she felt about people or things. She always made herself very clear.

I'm not saying that Nina wasn't complex or indecisive ­­ she was, we all know that. Nina took forever to make decisions. They dragged on and on. But at least, she never pretended to be sure of herself if she wasn’t.

When Nina wasn't happy about something, or didn't adore someone, she made it very easy to find out. She was wonderfully simple to be around.

If Nina didn't really want to go to your party, she would tell you.

If she didn't want to eat your food, she would tell you.

If you were giving her too much homework ­­-- or too little homework, for that matter -- she would tell you.

It wasn't always pleasant, but at the very least, you never had to worry, or try to guess how she was feeling, or walk on eggshells around Nina. She spared you that effort. Said. Done.

And of all the people I have loved this fully, I think I had to worry about Nina the least. I could always trust she was doing her thing and she'd take care of herself.

Which is why this particular tragedy, which brought us here together today, is so haunting.

Nina forced people to be honest with each other. And if she told you she loved you, and she did that a lot, because she cared for people, she would do it without reserve, without a shred of ambiguity. There was never a question that she meant every word. She would write things like "lots of giant hugs." Who writes things like that?

Gail and Nico, thank you for raising such a genuine gal. She was always right there with us.

Rob, thank you for all the times you teased and annoyed your sister growing up -- it’s how she learned to stand up for herself.

Nina my darling, lots of giant hugs. I will miss you very much.

Video: Nina's Memorial Race in Amman, Jordan on June 11, 2015

Translation into English: 

Toya Hasab Allah: This is for Nina’s memory, she loved running very much. She used to be very happy with the races done in Amman. She is a hero, and has a great place in our hearts. Our love for her cannot be quantified and will always remember her. As long as I run, she will always be with me. 

Ibrahem Abu Asbeh:  Nina was a dear friend and colleague. We used always train together.  The tragic news has profoundly impacted and upset all of us. We wanted to commemorate her memory through this Race for Charity in her name. We were happy that all her friends attended the run and even people who did not know her personally participated to honor her. Our prayers go out to her and her family.

Sharifa and Ashwaq: We are Nina’s friends, and her running partners.  We first met Nina here, at Sports City, and we would run together almost daily.  Talking about Nina, she brought us together with her persistent, kind spirit that represents a true sportswoman.  The smile would never leave her face, no matter her score or run time. As a human being, she is irreplaceable and our loss is great.  She is a friend above all else, she would motivate and encourage us. Her voice is still with me, urging us to go on, give it all we’ve got and not care about the challenges.  She will always be with us, her spirit is with us. Everything in Sports City reminds us of her.  We send our condolences to her family as we try to console ourselves with the loss of such a friend. 

Lina Al-Kurd: Today, we as Run Jordan have come together  to support running for charity, which is our motto.  We are doing this today in the name of one of our runners who participated with us in 2014, Nina Brekelmans. Nina is an American citizen who learned Arabic and tried to make an impact in Jordan.  She worked mainly on empowering local women to participate in sports, especially running.  She tried to help them overcome societal stigma and participate in any sport within the Kingdom. She also worked with us. She helped us with the Young Runners program. She volunteered as a trainer in this initiative.  We send her family our deepest condolences. We lost a great runner and volunteer who had an amazing spirit. Her memory will always live with her family and friends. This video is a gift to her loved ones in the US. In memory of Nina Brekelmans.

Washington Post Article on Nina and Michael McLoughlin

Victims of Dupont Circle house fire remembered for humor, humility

By Peter Hermann, Mary Pat Flaherty, and Julie Zauzmer

Nina Brekelmans graduated from Georgetown University in May with a master’s degree in Arabic Studies, focused on women’s rights in the Arab world. The 25-year-old was headed to the Middle East to research Jordan’s female distance runners, combining two of her passions.

Michael Patrick McLoughlin, 24, graduated magna cum laude in 2012 from the University of Maryland with degrees in finance and economics. He channeled his enthusiasm into his work and play and surprised his bosses at an insurance company by turning around a complex spatial data analysis a month before it was due.

They rented living quarters on the upper floors of a rowhouse on Riggs Place NW, just off 16th Street and not far from Dupont Circle, that caught fire and burned early Wednesday. Both were killed. And friends, colleagues and families are mourning two young lives lost in what onlookers described as a terrifying early morning blaze. The incident remains under investigation.

McLoughlin’s family issued a brief statement, saying he “was just beginning his career in D.C. when this tragedy occurred. Michael was a driven, intelligent young man, with an amazing ability to make people laugh. We are devastated that he is gone. We miss him greatly.” Brekelmans’s immediate family asked for privacy; a longtime friend described her as “just extraordinary.”

D.C. police and fire officials, along with the federal Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives, are investigating the 2:30 a.m. fire and said the cause has not been determined. But in a statement, Georgetown University said the fire started with an electrical malfunction. Lt. Sean Conboy, a spokesman for D.C. police, would say only that the cause does not appear suspicious. Three firefighters and two other occupants were injured.

Sefanit Befekadu, a spokeswoman for the D.C. Department of Consumer and Regulatory Affairs, said an inspection of the building the day of the fire revealed code violations, but city officials would not provide the report, citing the ongoing investigation. She did not say when the four-story rowhouse had last been inspected. A fire department spokesman was unable to say whether the house had working smoke detectors.

The building’s owner could not be reached to comment.

Just midway through her 20s, Brekelmans had built a résumé people twice her age might envy. She competed with the Georgetown Running Club, was treasurer of a women’s international organization and interned with Georgetown’s Muslim Chaplaincy. She was fluent in Arabic and Spanish and had studied in Jordan on a prestigious Boren Fellowship from the National Security Education Program.

“She was not one to sit there and flaunt her accomplishments,” said Mary Grace Pellegrini, who grew up with Brekelmans in Louis­ville and spent three years in high school with her there before both moved to the District. “She was extraordinarily accomplished and immensely humble.”

Brekelmans did her undergraduate work at Dartmouth College, where she was a walk-on to the cross-country and distance running programs. In 2012, she approached Jerry Alexander, coach of the Georgetown Running Club, made up mostly of accomplished runners who were in competitive college sports. Brekelmans knew that she was behind others, who ran up to 70 miles each week.

“She wanted the opportunity to get better,” said Alexander, 51, a lawyer with the U.S. Department of Justice’s civil division. “She knew she would be coming into the situation where she wasn’t at the top. She said she was a hard worker and would we give her the chance to prove herself.”

Brekelmans won her first half marathon last year in Jordan, on a course near the Dead Sea, Alexander said. There, she trained every day at 4:30 a.m. to beat the heat and avoid any problems in a country where the sight of a woman in shorts might prompt anger. It was just the sort of topic she planned to explore when she returned there on a Fulbright grant.

Fida Adely, an associate professor at Georgetown, said Brekelmans had combined her passion for the Arabic language and running as she set out to find ways that athletics could become “a tool to enhance the lives of girls and young women in the Arab world.” 

“While she could be quiet, she was thoughtful and really strove to understand the complex theories and realities of the region of the world she so loved,” Adely said. She said friends in Jordan are planning a memorial event.

Brekelmans moved into the Dupont Circle area house from Upper Northwest before the start of the school year in part to take advantage of theater and dining opportunities and to spend time with friends as she finished her graduate studies.

Pellegrini last saw her friend at the May 15 graduation, when they celebrated at dinner. They made plans to attend a play at a Jewish community center near her house on Wednesday and had confirmed the get-together in an e-mail over the weekend.

“I sensed something was up when I didn’t hear from Nina and she didn’t show up,” Pellegrini said. “That was not like her.”

The Muslim chaplain at Georgetown described Brekelmans as a “woman of faith in a loving God, faith in herself and in people. She believed that dreaming big is possible. . . . She was very humble, very loving and the best listener ever.”

McLoughlin, who grew up in Leonardtown in Southern Maryland, was passionate about his work but also knew how to have fun. He had moved into the Riggs Place house just two months ago while he was working at United Educators, an insurance company in Bethesda.

“Mike was mature beyond his years,” said Greg Peed, an actuarial analyst. “He had a quick grasp of the terminology used here and completed a complex project — a spatial data analysis — a month ahead of schedule. He had an inquisitive nature and was not shy about asking questions.”

McLoughlin had begun his career interning at OST Global Solutions, a consulting company in Rockville that helps contractors write proposals to win government jobs. His boss, Alex Brown, said he was so impressed by McLoughlin’s thorough research and quick grasp of the field that he hired him full-time.

Brown said that McLoughlin balanced professionalism and fun. “He was hysterical,” he said. “His goal was always to make sure that everyone else around him was happy.”

Once, he helped push Brown’s gasless car out of the street, drove him to get gas and drove him back, despite work piling up on his desk.

Leah Regan met McLoughlin when they interned at Global Solutions. At first, she thought him so serious that he was intimidating. Then she discovered his other side.

“He’d go from being incredibly professional on a conference call to five minutes later guffawing with laughter,” Regan said. She invited fellow interns to her house for a weekly dinner, where McLoughlin made sure that they turned on a sports game every week.

“He wasn’t able to sit down,” Regan said. “If the ball was in play, he was pacing around my living room, screaming at the top of his lungs in sheer excitement at the fact that sports was happening. . . . Most of us enjoyed watching Mike react to sports more than we actually enjoyed whatever sport was being broadcast.”

McLoughlin wore old-fashioned red headphones everywhere he went and could scarf down three helpings of food before anyone else had finished a first serving, friends said. And he would lean so far off a couch that he seemed in danger of falling off. “He was so animated, and he was so passionate,” Regan said.

Dana Hedgpeth, Magda Jean-Louis, Jennifer Jenkins, Susan Svrluga and Clarence Williams contributed to this article.

Run Jordan organizes memorial run for Nina Brekelmans

AMMAN — Run Jordan organised a special run in memory of American runner Nina Brekelmans who passed away in a tragic accident on June 3 in the United States, according to a statement from organisers.

Brekelmans won the 2014 Dead Sea Ultra Marathon 21km race and was one of the first five winners in the 2014 Amman Marathon.

She also volunteered with Run Jordan and helped launch the Junior Runners Programme in 2014. As a tribute to her highly motivated spirit and achievements with the society, Run Jordan’s family, team members and many local runners who participated in these races with Nina, came together to honour her love for running at the Sports City running track.

“We were very saddened with the news of Nina’s death, and to remember her motivated, helpful and giving spirit we decided that the best thing would be to honour her with the one thing that she loved most, running,” said Lina Kurd, Run Jordan general manager.

- See more at: http://www.jordantimes.com/news/sports/run-jordan-organises-memorial-run-nina-brekelmans#sthash.s1qobGTi.dpuf

From Teal Burrell and Miles to the Trials: "Nina"

By Teal Connor Burrell 

Last week, our team suffered another devastating loss: on June 3rd, our teammate Nina was killed in a house fire.

Nina was one of those people that seem to defy the laws of time and the limits of energy. She worked her butt off at absolutely everything she did, and she accomplished a lot in her short 25 years. Last month, she graduated from Georgetown with a Masters in Arab Studies and she was gearing up to head to the Middle East on a Fulbright scholarship. She walked onto the Dartmouth track and cross-country teams in college and joined GRC after graduation. Although she struggled with injuries during her time on GRC, she was an absolute fighter. At practice she would latch onto the pack and not let go. It was sometimes obvious how hard the pace was, but she fought with everything she had to stick to it. Dreaming big doesn’t get you anywhere without a work ethic to match, and Nina had the biggest.

It’s not fair that Nina won’t have a chance to go after her goals—both in running and in her career. Her Fulbright involved studying women’s running in Jordan, hoping to promote the sport as a way to empower women. As part of her Masters studies, she spent a year in the Middle East, originally settling in Egypt in the summer of 2013. When unrest broke out, she was forced to evacuate to Jordan but wrote us that she didn’t want to leave; she felt safe and wanted to stay to continue her studies. I think that attitude sums up Nina – her work ethic, her bravery, her optimism. She always saw the absolute best in people, and she worked incredibly hard to help people however she could.

While in Jordan, she ran—and won—her first half marathon. In her email after the race, she wrote about how she was excited that she ran well, but noted, “The best part of the day was sharing it with the people I love most here in Jordan.”

Isn’t that the best part of all running? Races are celebrations of hard work, and they’re best shared with the friends that have logged those miles with you, that have shared your dreams and aspirations, that have stuck—huffing and puffing—on your tail through every lung-busting interval. Running has given me some of my best friends—people who make the victories seem sweeter and the defeats sting less.

Which makes it devastating to lose one of those friends. Please keep Nina’s family, friends, and teammates all over the world in your thoughts and prayers. 

We’ll miss you, Nina. May we remember you always by trying to live more like you did: bravely, positively, with a heart full of kindness, always willing to help however possible.

 

Dream as big as Nina did,

Teal

Video: Nina's Post-race Interview from the 2014 Dead Sea Ultra Marathon

عدائة محترفة وخلوقة احبت الاردن كثيرا وفرضت احترام الناس لها الله يرحمك يا ( NINA BREKELMANS )

Posted by Lutfi Mohammad Saleh on Saturday, June 6, 2015

GRC Remembers Nina

Our teammate Nina

By Charlie Ban

Posted on the Georgetown Running Club Blog on June 5, 2015

After making her mark in Kentucky, Mexico, New Hampshire, Egypt, Jordan and Washington, D.C., Nina Brekelmans was about to head back to the Middle East, ready to take on the world when a fire in her Dupont Circle rowhouse June 3 claimed her and a neighbor. She was 25.

She had finished her Master’s in Arab Studies at Georgetown less than three weeks earlier and her parents, who are living in China, were on hand for commencement.

She was due to return to Jordan, to work on a Fulbright grant studying women’s athletics as a means of encouraging confidence and self esteem. Her high school friend and GRC teammate Mary Grace Pellegrini said that on the verge of her new life, Nina was primed to change the world with her energy, talent, intellect and raw determination.

“She was at a happy stage of her life,” Mary Grace said. “She had a sincere and deep love for the people of the Middle East. It’s where she felt at home.”

While in Jordan during part of a one-year language and cultural immersion fellowship (she started in Egypt until civil unrest prompted Americans to leave), she won her first attempt at a half marathon at the Dead Sea, taking home some prize money, meeting members of the royal family and generally being treated “like a star,” Mary Grace said.

“She was an absolute dynamo,” she added. “And she was so proud to wear her GRC shirt on the podium.”

About the half marathon, she said, "for once in my life, I am quite pleased with the result, as well!"

That gave some insight into the standards that she set for herself. Despite taking up the sport in earnest only a few years before, and having won the Cross Country on the Farm 5k in 2012 in Derwood, Md., she was only starting to be satisfied with her performances when she won on a competitive stage.

Nina came to competitive running later in life than most of her teammates. While an undergrad at Dartmouth, she rowed on the crew team, but a run at home in Louisville during a semester break with Mary Grace opened a new door for her.

“I told her ‘Nina, you’re running really fast, you’re in great shape,’” Mary Grace said. “I told her she could probably walk on to the team at Dartmouth. She played soccer (and tennis) in high school but would have been one of our best cross country runners.” 

So Nina showed up to the Dartmouth home invitational, cheered on by professors, friends and crew teammates who knew they’d lose her from the team if she ran too fast. She did, and became a harrier for the Big Green. 

“Her career at Dartmouth was limited by injury, but she ran some very solid times in college,” said GRC Coach Jerry Alexander. The highlight of her collegiate career came in Boston, where she ran a 9:56 3000m. “She was essentially a very talented beginner when she joined GRC in the fall of 2012.  She was really committed to continue her development with GRC, and was training extremely well.”

Injuries plagued her throughout her running career, but they only affected her body. She remained determined throughout and committed to her teammates both new and old. She beemed with pride when she had a chance to watch college teammate Alexi Pappas race in Alexandria last fall at the .US National 12k, and even though she loved her experiences in Egypt (before relocating to Jordan during her language fellowship), she regretted missing out on celebrating teammates’ successes.

“It's been really fun to follow your racing results and see massive PR after PR. Wish I were there to enjoy these moments with you!” she wrote to her teammates.

Mary Grace remembered her as a devoted and genuine friend. 

“Nina would remember things about people that they’d just mention in passing,” she said. “She knew I had a great race at the Penn Relays, and she found a poster for the meet while visiting her brother at Penn and gave it to me."

That handoff meant carrying the vintage poster with her across the eastern United  States over a few weeks. 

"That’s the kind of thing she’d do for her friends. She was a wonderful friend and so sincere."

And despite those injuries, she was determined to do something with her running. As she left for Cairo she told her teammates she wasn’t going to let inconveniences keep her from the sport she had grown to love.

“I do plan on training in Cairo,” she wrote at the time. “Through the heat, pollution and traffic, and probably getting shouted at.”

That was typical Nina.

“She was always challenging herself,” Mary Grace said. “To excel at academics, to go after the most competitive scholarships in the country, to learn another language. With Arabic, she was really on another level, truly exceptional.”

That future was going to take her away from D.C., but not before she made an impression on her teammates.

“Nina was very, very proud to be part of GRC,” Jerry said. “She was willing to do whatever it was going to take to hang with the girls, and she was a great teammate in every sense of the word.”

I'd hear her wheezing as she'd push to keep up with her far more seasoned teammates and initially thought it was an indication of some weakness, but I realized quickly that it was indicative of her strength and focus to do what it took to be a better runner, to push herself harder.

We’re left to only imagine where she would have topped out and the impact she would have had in the Middle East and beyond.

“She was ready to go out into the world and make a difference,” Mary Grace said. 

Duluth News Tribune Feature

Georgetown Running Club members come to Grandma's Marathon mourning death of teammate

By Louie St. George

Published by the Duluth News Tribune on July 13, 2015

Runners long have tailored their training to avoid “heavy legs” on race day.

If only there were a running plan designed to prevent heavy hearts.

Members of the Washington, D.C.-based Georgetown Running Club will arrive in Duluth this week for Grandma’s Marathon toting the latter.

For the second time in less than three years, the GRC is dealing with the sudden passing of a beloved teammate. Nina Brekelmans died June 3 in a fire at her Washington, D.C., rowhouse that also claimed a neighbor. She was 25 and full of ambition.

Brekelmans recently earned her master’s degree in Arab Studies at Georgetown University. After previously spending a year in the Middle East as part of a language and cultural immersion program, she was preparing to return to Jordan later this year on a prestigious Fulbright grant. There, her mission would be empowering women through athletics.

“She was very devoted to the idea of lifting women up, in Jordan in particular, through the ability to be an athlete,” GRC coach Jerry Alexander said last week.

A memorial for Brekelmans was held Wednesday at Georgetown, during which her humility once again was underscored. Brekelmans, originally from Louisville, Ky., never flaunted her many accolades. When she announced she was heading back to Jordan, for example, Brekelmans didn’t mention the Fulbright. And her professors at Georgetown were under the impression that running was a mere hobby, unaware she belonged to a professional team.

“These people from different aspects of her life didn’t know how accomplished she was in other areas,” Alexander said. “She did these incredible things and didn’t tell people. She was so humble about it.”

Alexander is bringing a handful of athletes to the Northland for Grandma’s and the accompanying Garry Bjorklund Half Marathon. Almost all are hell-bent on producing a time that would qualify them for February’s U.S. Olympic Trials in Los Angeles.

Brekelmans’ death hasn’t changed that singular focus. The consummate teammate, she gleaned more satisfaction from her cohorts’ accomplishments than her own. She was immensely proud to be associated with the GRC.

“I feel that the best way to honor Nina is to put it all out there and run a really good race in Duluth,” Kristin Johnson, 25, said. “I think that’s something she would be proud of.”

Johnson, from New Hampshire, is running the full marathon Saturday.

For Johnson’s teammate, Luke Meyer, the past 10 days have reinforced the reality that life is unpredictable, fleeting.

“I don’t want to sound trite, but it definitely has kind of helped me try to make the most of the opportunity that I have and try to give my utmost, knowing that things can change very quickly and that I shouldn’t take anything for granted,” the 31-year-old lawyer from Connecticut said.

Like he did last year, Meyer is running the half-marathon Saturday. He called the course “amazing” and was hoping for a respite from the humidity-laced heat that has gripped D.C. of late. Temperatures were in the 90s Friday.

That, along with a life lost far too soon, has altered the nature of the team’s training. GRC members say in one sense it’s been difficult to run because their minds are elsewhere. On the other hand, however, they say the memory of Brekelmans has buoyed their resolve to “go for it.”

In December 2012, another GRC athlete, Lauren Woodall Roady was struck and killed by a fire truck in Lexington, Ky., site of that year’s USA Track and Field Club Cross Country National Championships.

“It’s two losses for the women’s team, so it’s very shaking,” 28-year-old Kieran O’Connor said. “Everyone’s focus at this point is just kind of grieving Nina and celebrating her spirit.”

O’Connor hopes to run a sub-2:18 over 26.2 miles Saturday, which would qualify him for the Olympic Trials. He’s from upstate New York, just outside of Albany.

Brekelmans provided plenty to celebrate, including a blue-collar devotion to running that allowed her to overcome a lack of God-given speed. While in the Middle East, she won her half-marathon debut near the Dead Sea in Jordan and was thrilled to “wear her GRC shirt on the podium,” according to the team’s blog.

Running didn’t come easy for Brekelmans.

“She had to work harder than any of the other girls just to kind of be able to keep up at the back of the pack, but it meant the world to her to be part of the team,” Alexander said. “She didn’t have the natural gifts that some of the other girls do, but she made the most of what she had.

“And everyone really respected the heck out of her because of that passion that she put into it.”

Alexander was talking about her running.

He just as well could have been talking about her life.

-- One GRC runner who won’t be participating in Grandma’s Marathon is Sean Barrett. After graduating from Harvard in 2007, Barrett had a number of offers to work on Wall Street. He instead chose to join the Marines. Barrett did tours in Iraq and Afghanistan and was awarded the Bronze Star in 2010 while in Iraq. He currently is stationed in California and will be deployed in July to the Philippines. Barrett will be there for at least one year and had hoped to run one more race before departing, but a recent injury curtailed those plans.

Georgetown University's 'Hoya' Profile of Nina

Brekelmans, 25, Leaves Textured Legacy

By Katherine Richardson

Published in The Hoya on September 1, 2015

By all accounts, Nina Brekelmans (GRD ’15) was a brilliant student, an exceedingly proficient Arabic and Spanish speaker and an avid long-distance runner. She graduated with a near-perfect GPA in Georgetown’s Master of Arts in Arab Studies program and planned to study the experiences of female runners in Jordan with a Fulbright grant this fall.

On June 3, Brekelmans, 25, died in an electrical fire in a townhouse on Riggs Place NW near Dupont Circle. The 2:30 a.m. blaze killed one other resident and injured three firefighters.

A Talented Scholar

After high school in Mexico and Kentucky, Brekelmans began to build an impressive resume. She received her undergraduate degree in Arabic from Dartmouth College, where she graduated summa cum laude and ran on the NCAA Division I cross-country and track teams. She matriculated into the Master of Arts in Arab Studies program in 2012, spent a gap year studying in Jordan, ran with the Georgetown Running Club, interned at the Muslim Chaplaincy and served as treasurer of Georgetown Women in International Affairs.

Brekelmans will be remembered in the academic communities of both Dartmouth and Georgetown as a passionate and endlessly talented student. Many professors noted that she exuded a quiet confidence in the classroom.

Dartmouth Arabic professor Mostafa Ouajjani said Brekelmans was one of the hardest workers he has ever taught.

“Nina has always impressed her classmates and me by her sense of perfection, her meticulous work and her total engagement,” Ouajjani wrote in an email. “As I think of this amazing student, I can recall a passionate and smart learner.”

Ouajjani kept in contact with Brekelmans after her graduation. Shortly before her death, she sent him a piece of her own work in Arabic — a fictional short story called “The Mother.”

“This text shows that Nina controls the most complex Arabic structures and feels at home using idioms and understanding cultural nuances of Arabic,” Oujjani wrote. “Indeed, anyone who reads this text would feel that it must have been written by an Arab writer. I intend to use her text in my course on the Arabic short story this fall in honor to her heritage and in remembrance of such an amazing soul.”

Brekelmans developed an interest in writing and translating Arabic fiction at Georgetown, where she audited “Introduction to Fiction Writing” with Professor David Ebenbach.

“She was kind of amazing,” Ebenbach said. “She was a very talented writer, first of all, but I think, most impressively, she was a very generous presence in the class. She gave a lot more than she took. She was really helpful with her peers, giving them feedback on their work, and she was auditing, so she could have phoned it in, but she gave a lot of herself.”

Clovis and Hala Salaam Maksoud Chair in Arab Studies Fida Adely taught Brekelmans in two classes and noted her quiet strength in the classroom.

“She was pretty quiet but very focused,” Adely said. “I have this vivid memory of her in this one class where we had these really passionate and loud students who were debating. It was a small class, and there was a debate going back and forth for 30 minutes between three or four students. At the end she said, ‘Just let me make sure I understand.’ And she summarized the points everyone just made. She was always engaged and participating and absorbing what was going on.”

Brekelmans’ interest in Arabic expanded beyond the classroom, as well, with her internship at the Muslim Chaplaincy. Through the position, she connected with Muslim students and community leaders and organized programming and outreach for the chaplaincy.

“She wanted to practice her Arabic, and she was really determined to study Arabic, to engage in the Arab world and engage in Arabic art and the Arab culture,” Director of Muslim Chaplaincy Imam Yahya Hendi said.

Hendi said that he and Brekelmans connected over their desire to “give a voice to women, a voice to those who are forgotten.”

“Nina was spiritual, a special kind of spirituality. She was connected with her soul, with her mind, with her heart,” Hendi said. “In her, I saw the true vision that God has for the world.”

An Avid Runner

Brekelmans’ second passion in life was running. She walked on to the Dartmouth Division I cross-country and track teams her freshman year and trained hard to keep up with her recruited teammates. Over time, she began to break her own personal records, notching a 5:12 in the mile and 17:57 in the 5K .

“She was a really hard, hard worker. One of the hardest workers on the team,” former Dartmouth Distance Coach Marc Coogan said. “We even acknowledged that as a team at the track and cross-country banquet at the end of the season. She wasn’t the fastest girl on the team, but definitely one of the hardest-working.”

At Georgetown, Brekelmans joined the Georgetown Running Club and became a volunteer for Girls on the Run, a non-profit that encourages young girls to develop a passion for fitness.

“Nina was very, very proud to be part of GRC,” GRC Coach Jerry Alexander wrote on the club’s blog. “She was willing to do whatever it was going to take to hang with the girls, and she was a great teammate in every sense of the word.”

Brekelmans managed to mix both of her passions, Arabic and running, during her gap year in Amman, Jordan. She spent one year there in 2013 through the Center for Arabic Study Abroad and immediately involved herself in the community, running daily at Sports City in Amman. There, she connected with runners with the organization Run Jordan, a non-governmental organization that coordinates races throughout the country. She won her first half-marathon in Jordan on her first-ever attempt at the 13.1-mile race.

Brekelmans made friends with many female distance runners, with whom she trained daily at 4:30 a.m. to avoid the blistering Jordanian summer heat.

“She worked mainly on empowering local women to participate in sports, especially running,” Run Jordan member Lina Al-Kurd wrote in an email. “She tried to help them overcome societal stigma and participate in any sport within the Kingdom. …We lost a great runner and volunteer who had an amazing spirit.”

Fostering Friendships

Brekelmans’ penchant for Arabic was not only helpful in an academic setting, but also in a social one. She had a remarkable ability to make close friends in Arabic, as evidenced by her strong network of runners, coaches and volunteers in Amman.

“We first met Nina here, at Sports City, and we would run together almost daily,” Sharifa and Ashwaq, two female runners, wrote in an email. “Talking about Nina, she brought us together with her persistent, kind spirit that represents a true sportswoman. The smile would never leave her face, no matter her score or run time. As a human being, she is irreplaceable and our loss is great.”

According to her teammates, Brekelmans was a motivating and encouraging force. Many teammates shared their experiences with Brekelmans in a memorial video, and Run Jordan hosted a memorial run in her honor in June.

“We saw Nina at practice almost every day. No one will forget her. Her soul and her spirit is with us and it encourages us,” an unnamed teammate said in the video. “She would always come up to me and encourage me and say, ‘You can, you can.’ I will never forget her telling me that. Whenever I find something to be difficult, I will always remember what Nina told me.”

Brekelmans involved herself in many aspects of Jordanian life besides running. She volunteered at Reclaim Childhood, a non-profit in Amman that teaches sports to refugee children, and aimed to explore historical and cultural sites outside of the city in her free time.

“The will that she had, the strong will led her to really reach out in Jordan,” Hendi said. “She went to the market, she spoke to people on the street, she went to peoples’ homes. She challenged the unchallenged. She challenged her own fears of the unknown.”

Many of Brekelmans’ Jordanian friends did not speak English at all, which Center for Contemporary Arab Studies Program Manager Julie Yelle (SFS ’08) said showcases a truly special talent. Yelle met Brekelmans at Middlebury College during a summer language immersion program.

“One of the things that struck me was what an amazing ability she had to build relationships and nurture friendships in Arabic,” Yelle said. “When I got to know her, we spoke the whole time in Arabic, and I really enjoyed getting to know her that summer. Now, when I’m thinking about how deeply I feel her loss, it’s incredible to think that 99 percent of my interaction with her was in Arabic.”

Hendi said Brekelmans will be remembered in America and in Jordan as a bright force for positivity and change.

“She meant the word ‘inspiration.’ She really inspired so many people she came across without any doubt,” Hendi said. “She meant simplicity. She would sit on the floor and wouldn’t care, would eat anything. And smile, oh my God, smile. Even if she was in pain or torn into pieces inside, she managed to smile.”

Runner's World Feature

Friends Honor the Memory of Runner, Advocate Who Died at 25

By Nelson Rice

Published by RunnersWorld.com on July 2, 2015

Just weeks after graduating from Georgetown University with a master’s degree in Arab Studies, Nina Brekelmans, 25, died on June 3 in a fire at the row home she was renting in the Dupont Circle area of Washington D.C.

According to a statement released by Georgetown University, the fire was triggered by an electrical malfunction. Since then, tributes from across the world have poured in for the quiet young woman who loved running and dedicated her time to helping others.

Brekelmans discovered running during her sophomore year at Dartmouth College while on semester break in her hometown of Louisville, Kentucky. Mary Grace Pellegrini, a friend from high school who ran track at the University of Michigan, convinced Brekelmans to tag along for a morning training session.

Pellegrini said she was expecting a recovery day. That quickly changed when Brekelmans pushed the pace—on her first run.

“I told Nina she was in great condition and that she was a natural runner,” Pellegrini told Runner’s World Newswire.

Pellegrini gave Brekelmans a training schedule and a pair of Mizunoracing flats. When Brekelmans went back to Hanover, New Hampshire, she entered the Dartmouth Invitational indoor track meet and ran 10:20 in the 3K. Coaches noticed and gave her a spot on the team.

“For all distance runners, you need to have a certain amount of motivation,” Barry Harwick, Dartmouth’s director of track and field and cross country, said. “And Nina had plenty.”

Once she graduated from Dartmouth in 2012 with a degree in Asian and Middle Eastern Studies, Brekelmans began pursuing her master’s at Georgetown’s School of Foreign Service. At the same time she sought out Jerry Alexander, the coach of the Georgetown Running Club, and asked how she could join the elite team.

Brekelmans, who had personal records of 5:12 in the mile and 9:56 in the 3K, had far less experience than most of the team members. She didn’t care and pushed herself to hang with some of squad’s best runners.

“She wasn’t satisfied with just making the team,” Alexander said. “She wanted to be one of top women, and she was going to do whatever it took to get there.”

In 2013, Brekelmans was selected for a Boren Fellowship to study in Cairo. Shortly after arriving, she was forced to evacuate to Amman, Jordan, because of unrest in the region.

The change in location didn’t deter Brekelmans. She woke up at 4:30 a.m. every morning to run and avoid the stifling heat. Brekelmans volunteered and helped create a junior runners program for Run Jordan, a non-governmental organization that promotes long distance running in the country. After spending time there, she entered the 2014 Dead Ultra Marathon and ran the half marathon race—her first attempt at the distance—and won in 1:23:56.

“That was way faster than we thought Nina was capable of doing even if she trained in ideal circumstances,” Alexander said. “It was by far the best race of her life.”

After Brekelmans returned to Georgetown, she continued her outreach efforts. For her “Refugees in the Arab World” class, she translated refugee testimonies so they could secure asylum in the U.S. She was a mentor for Girls on the Run—a nonprofit after-school program that encourages preteen girls to develop self-esteem and healthy lifestyles through running.

Although a series of injuries prevented her from running competitively earlier this year, she went to several races in the spring to cheer on her Georgetown Running Club teammates, including Pellegrini, who moved to Washington D.C. for work.

Pellegrini last saw Brekelmans at her graduation in May. On June 3, Pelligrini got a voicemail from Alexander asking her to call him back. He then told her the news of Brekelmans' sudden death.

More than 20 members from the running club attended Brekelmans’ memorial service at Georgetown’s Dahlgren Chapel. During the luncheon after the service, Pellegrini and Alexander both spoke.

“Nina was so humble that I wanted to make sure everyone was aware of her accomplishments, not only as student, but as a runner as well,” Alexander said. 

Brekelmans hoped to unite her interest in the Arab world and love of running through a Fulbright grant she was awarded this spring. She planned to travel to Jordan again to study distance running as a tool for women’s rights.

To uphold that mission, the Center for Contemporary Arab Studies at Georgetown intends to establish the Nina Brekelmans Scholarship Fund to promote female empowerment in the Middle East.

Her running community is remembering in its own way. On June 11, Run Jordan held a race in Brekelmans’ honor. The Georgetown Running Club had a moment of silence for her before its Father’s Day 8K, but the club wants to commemorate her life and impact in a more lasting fashion.

The team plans to put a patch with Brekelmans’ name on their warmup jackets—in English and Arabic.

“She’ll be with us every step of the way,” Alexander said.